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How Mature Are You?
May 07, 2013
Maturity is achieved when a person postpones immediate pleasures for long-term values.
~Joshua L. Liebman
What does emotional immaturity look like?
To put our overeating behind us, we will have to grow up! Growing up means dealing with life on life’s terms. Maturity means leaving behind childish fantasies of having the perfect life and accepting life as the uncertain, imperfect package that it is, not how we want it to be. It means learning to roll with the punches and realizing that there are no quick fixes or short cuts out there for us.
It means being willing to put in the hard work, sacrifices, and effort that the best things in life require. We become willing to invest in ourselves when we give up the fantasy that someone is going to rescue us, take care of us, or magically fix us. If we want what we want, we are going to have to give it to ourselves. Cinderella truly was a fairytale after all.
Mindfulness is very helpful for poor impulse control and emotional regulation. Mindfulness teaches us that we aren’t our thoughts or emotions; we can learn to detach and not react to them. Mindfulness also helps us to pause and reflect before acting on our urges and to delay gratification.
Pausing is like a muscle, the more we do it, the stronger and better we become at it. The more we abstain from temptations, the better we feel about ourselves and our confidence grows. As we start to see results, we gain the momentum and the motivation to keep going after our goal.
Feast for the Eyes - Photo by Catherine L. Taylor
Reflective Questions, Thoughts and Quotes
I easily resist temptation.
I pause before acting on my impulses.
I delay gratification easily.
I am the heroine of my own life.
I can give myself the things I really want in life.
I am my best investment.
Want to know more about my work and my philosophy? How you do food is how you do life!®
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